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Men and women work differently – very differently. In this video, Dr, John Gray, of Mars And Venus fame, discusses the differences between How Men Think And Feel.

Women, what you don’t understand about men is we have billions less neuro-connectors between thinking and feeling.

Men have a difficult time thinking a lot and knowing what they feel.

To feel and think is a very difficult thing for men. We have to sort of go “Okay, I feel… Hmm, what was I feeling? Let check out that feeling. Well, it has changed now…  let me check again.”  Then, once we figure out what we are feeling, we have to stop feeling on the left side of our brain and go up to the other part of the brain, right up in the front part and talk. So, we have to figure out what we think about what we feel then we talk about it.

Sometimes women complain that it doesn’t have a lot of feeling by that point, she says: “I don’t feel it!”

“Well I did feel it but I thought about it look over there…”

When a man is really is his sort of work mode that’s the left side of the brain so he’s poking left brain, left brain, left brain.  It’s very hard for him to access his feelings at that time.

Women, you don’t understand what it’s like to be a man… at all! Total. You know, it’s interesting, our brains are very similar – the location of things in our brain are very similar – but there are some big differences. The first difference, which is sort of politically in correct to point out, but I’d like to point it all out anyway, is that men’s brain are bigger than womens. Men’s brains start out bigger – but what they don’t tell you usually – is that they end up smaller.

Men’s brain start out bigger, and end up smaller than women’s.