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Do You Have the Urge to Improve Your Partner? This can be a healthy, normal inclination, but Dr. John Gray gives us some powerful tips on how to manage these urges in a way that will strengthen your relationships.

How many women feel that you have that irresistible urge to try to improve your partner?

Be proud of it… you’re women, that’s what you do! If you are not even aware of it, become aware of it because it’s one of the biggest sabotaging things you can do in a relationship:

• Your husband’s tie is not right? Let somebody else point it out to him, unless he says to you “do you think my tie looks good?”
• He’s eating a meal and he’s ordering a desert… and you look at him like you are his mother: “you know what the doctor said, you shouldn’t be eating that”.

How can he have passion for you that night? How can he feel connected to you?

Suddenly you are treating him like a child… some women say “but he behaves like a child.” I say if you treat him like a child, he’ll behave like a child.

Women tend to give unsolicited advice: “how can I help him? Let me suggest this! Let me suggest this! Let me suggest this!”  What you unknowingly do is push away the man you love the most in life.

Now what men do is just almost the same but with a different twist almost an opposite twist. Men wanna give advice to women – not about so much what you should do (although some us would do that) – but about how you should feel. Women, you know how much you hate that… you’re upset – as though you shouldn’t be upset.

Men don’t understand how sensitive women are about this issue, if I am talking to another guy and he’s upset about something, I can easily say “don’t worry about it it’s not a big deal it’s tomorrow, he’ll go “okay we’ll have a drink and watch TV” it’s not like a big issue”.

(Try saying that to your wife, she won’t be your wife for long…)

See larger image Mars and Venus Together Forever: Relationship Skills for Lasting Love (Paperback) By (author) John Gray List Price: $14.99 USD New From: $4.54 In Stock Used from: $0.01 In Stock Release date March 1, 2005.